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Avatar de AB

Sending you so much love ♥️ your growth and transformation are powerful and that energy can be felt throughout this essay.

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Avatar de Nzinga Bandida

Thank you, I'm glad it resonated with you, it was a hard year but a year of many lessons. Thank you for the love, I receive it🤎

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Avatar de aisha ✰

So much of this resonated. This part really stuck with me “I was forced to see that most people are extremely selfish and I should start being a little selfish too. It’s the year I started to really apply reciprocity to my relationships” that strange loneliness but knowing it’s for the best. I really look forward to reading more of your writing in the new year 💗

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Avatar de Nzinga Bandida

Thank you Aisha, I'm looking forward to (over)share more in 2025.

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Avatar de neena maiya

I hope hope HOPE next year is much better.

Maybe if we all helped each other, supported each other, instead of throwing more $$ to the wealthy, we'd come through better.

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Avatar de Nzinga Bandida

Girl, me too! I was so anxious on NYE, I realized the following day it was because 2024 beat my ass in unexpected way, Im actually terrified of 2025. I guess we'll see.

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Avatar de neena maiya

I truly hope fear doesn’t overwhelm you, Nzinga. It almost gobbled me up. Since about three years now, I’ve had to deal with financial loss, thanks to a business company. I’m working on the “don’t worry” part and trying to work on the business part of writing. It’s good to have people who care. Sometimes, I listen to Tyler Perry on YouTube for a boost…he talks about his creative struggles when he was homeless.

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